“I” and “feel” are two of the most damaging words toward the
faith in the world today. I think it should be its own heresy. The “Ifeelists – Ifeelism.) You’ll
be having a perfectly good conversation about something faith related and
somebody will say, “Well I feel . . .”
There are two problems with this.
The first is that it is an inherently selfish statement. Who can say anything to you? You are simply stating how you feel. It’s like saying, “I feel satisfied.” What can I say to that? “No you don’t.”
The second problem is that whatever is stated after “I feel”
often has no connection to the lived faith of two thousand years of
Christianity, the early Church Fathers, the writings and lives of the saints,
the logic of the greatest minds of mankind, a children’s catechism, or even a
casual conversation with someone remotely connected with any orthodox
faith. “I feel” is a cloud. You can’t punch it, defend it, or debate
it. It is simply a thought someone has
that makes them feel good. The full
consequences need not be thought through, possible blow back, inconsistencies, or
the fact that it may have been held in the past and rejected due to its ill consequence. Any debate is likely to be answered, “Well, I
don’t agree.”
One author calls this Moralistic, Therapeutic, Deism. This is truly the opiate of the masses. What you feel or think is of course truth –
at least for you. This is where
relativism sneaks in. “Well, that may be
truth for you but . . .”
This is why the Church has always insisted on a formed
conscience. That means being in contact
with Scripture and Tradition, it means having some training in the early Church
Fathers, lives of the saints, and 2,000 years of Christian thought (which comes
to us at least in part through the Catechism, Catholic schools, PSR, CCD, etc.) All of which leads us to the third precept of
the Church: to study and learn the faith in preparation for Confirmation, to be
confirmed, and then to KEEP LEARNING. I
know that perhaps your particular parish is horrible at teaching the
faith. That doesn’t lift the
responsibility of the individual from forming their conscience. We are too rich of a nation with too much
information at our disposal to say, “Nobody ever told me.” At the click of a button on your computer (or
at the library’s computer) there are all the Church documents, tweets by the
pope, Church history, lives of the saints, writings of the Church Fathers,
apologists, videos, podcasts, links, all floating around in the air just
waiting for you to grab them and study them like angels surrounding us, just
waiting for us to take advantage of them.
6 comments:
mom is never wrong
The "I feel" is just an escape clause for "I think" when one does not want to commit
Father, this is so on target, you need to re-post it about every 3 months.
Relativism is a great danger. The idea that there are versions to the truth, mine and yours, is a logical fallacy. Thank you for posting. Concisely written, immensely important!
-MP
true: "in accordance with fact or reality"--
We need a new word for what people say is "true" or "the truth" (when what they mean by "true" is merely their subjective opinion), just as the English language could use several words for what is inaccurately covered by the word "love."
Bravo, Fr. V.!
Just in the last few days, I caught myself writing I "feel" in an e-mails a couple of times, and realized that I absolutely did not want to say what I had to say that way. I found better words immediately: I "think", I "believe", "it seems to me" (if I have to be noncommittal), or "it is" (if I'm confident about it), ANYTHING but "I feel", unless of course I actually do feel something, like sick, or sad, or annoyed that everyone keeps saying they feel things when they ought to be thinking, not feeling.
It's all Yoda's fault: "Feel...don't think."
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