tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5745814378416915364.post1535119347773216676..comments2023-12-23T00:19:35.005-08:00Comments on ADAM'S ALE: WHEN GOOD ENOUGH ISN'TFr. Vhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13201561855047420853noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5745814378416915364.post-53003327062608769042017-03-30T08:56:29.678-07:002017-03-30T08:56:29.678-07:00Well said, Father.
I think it would be good to be...Well said, Father.<br /><br />I think it would be good to be very careful not to allow a parish to become "clique-ish". Meaning, we should be welcoming strangers and visitors. And to all parishioners, not just those who are on "Father's favorites list" or those we like. That should go for us at Mass, and at activities in the parish, and volunteer opportunities.<br /><br />I was originally attracted to my home parish because I felt valued and welcomed. My pastor at that time and the parishioners made an effort to smile and to learn my name. I was encouraged to be part of parish events. I felt needed. If I was away, I was missed.<br /><br />Parishes have personalities.<br /><br />Some are friendly, warm, and welcoming. Personally, this is how I think Jesus would want us to treat newcomers and our own parishioners - to treat them all with kindness. We do not "own" our parishes and they aren't the country club, where only certain parishioners are welcome. Parishes are meant to be family.<br /><br />Other parishes only permit certain individuals to volunteer and be a part of things, and they give the stink eye to visitors and parishioners who are not part of the clique. It is not Christian charity and kindness to treat anyone like that, whether they belong to the parish or whether they are strangers.<br /><br />I don't know if this is what you were getting at, Father, but that's my two cents.<br /><br />Lenten blessings - Sue, ofsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com